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Continuing tonight with the book of Genesis, we're in chapter 30, two weeks ago we went over chapter 29 and it was essentially Jacob marrying both Leah and Rachel and all the controversy that was attached to that.

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Of course, Jacob originally wanted to marry Rachel, but his father-in-law, Laban, ended up deceiving him, being cunning just as he was in times past and essentially marrying off the eldest daughter, Leah first.

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Of course, Jacob was not happy with this and so he ended up having to labor another seven years for Rachel.

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And one of the principles that I talked about in that sermon is the fact that, you know, Jacob should have just been content with staying with Leah, right?

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It wasn't God's will for him to add Rachel to his marriage with Leah.

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He should have just stayed with Leah because of the fact that God does not approve of polygamy, right?

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He wants man to have one wife. He didn't create a second wife for Adam in the Garden of Eden.

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It was just Adam and Eve. He didn't take out another rib in order to make another spouse for Adam.

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From the beginning, you know, male and female is how he created them singular, right?

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He wanted that to be in that manner and that is the model for marriage.

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But here we find that Jacob is not content with just staying with Leah and allowing God to work through that, allowing God to bless him.

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And keep in mind, you know, Jacob is somewhat part of the promise, right?

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He is the one that God is going to work through.

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He's the one that God is going to bless with the nation of Israel.

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The promises are going to be fulfilled physically through Jacob.

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And so Jacob has in his mind that he kind of has to participate or kind of manipulate situations in order for that to be carried out.

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But he doesn't.

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And here's the thing, folks, is that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.

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And what that means is that, you know, God can bless us even when we're being defrauded, we're being wrong.

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Maybe the situation is not necessarily coming out in the outcome that we would want.

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It's okay. God can still work out that situation together for good.

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He can work it out for your benefit.

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He can turn things around.

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He can essentially take the ingredients to that bad situation and make a cupcake, right?

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He can make a delicious cake out of those ingredients that, you know, are a result of other people's bad decisions, wrongdoings and so forth.

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But you know, Jacob has not taken that into account, okay?

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He's angry at his father-in-law, and he's going to get Rachel by any means necessary, even if he has to work another seven years.

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Now, obviously, we look at that story and say, oh, how romantic. He was willing to wait seven years.

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Yeah, it is, but here's the thing. Not God's will though, you know?

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And it's one of those things that I believe God winked at because of the fact that, you know, the purpose of God still has to be carried out.

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And unfortunately, he only has sinful men to work with, you know?

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And that really teaches me and it should teach us as a church that if God blesses us as a church or as an individual,

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it only means that we've done a couple of things right.

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It doesn't necessarily mean that we've done all things right because at the end of the day, God only has sinners to work with.

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So if God has blessed you, he's been gracious to you.

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He's, you know, magnified you. He's blessed you with resources, finances, possessions, even spiritual blessings.

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Just know this. All that means is that you've done a couple of things right, okay?

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Because at the end of the day, you know, we have to recognize that it's by the grace of God that we have what we have and we are what we are.

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You know, God's blessing is obviously a result of our obedience to his word, but how much he blesses us is really a result of God's unmerited favor towards us, okay?

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So you never wanted to let that go to your head. Don't let success go to your head.

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Don't let achievements go to your head and think, oh, man, yeah, I'm just some great one. I'm just awesome.

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That's why God's blessed him. Not necessarily. You know, yeah, your obedience brought about the result to a certain degree,

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but how much God blesses you and what God has given to you overall is essentially a result of just God being good, okay?

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And, you know, here's a good example. Jacob is not necessarily the best guy, okay?

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Bro's cunning. He's a liar. He's deceptive. He's a heel catcher.

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From the start, he just has a bad reputation. He doesn't have a good track record.

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Yet God is still using him to bring about the will of God and ultimately we know that God's going to refine him.

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He's going to work in his life so that he is a vessel and to honor meet for the master's use.

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So, you know, a lot of people like to use Jacob as an example of their justification for polygamy,

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but that's not the case. That's not what we see here.

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And in fact, if you actually follow the story, you actually see that their polygamous relationship brought about a lot of problems.

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A lot of envy, a lot of jealousy, a lot of heartbreak, a lot of favoritism,

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things that are not necessarily supposed to take place within a marriage.

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So, he has two wives here, Leah, and he has Rachel.

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And, you know, Leah's despised. We talked about that as well.

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The fact that, you know, Jacob's not really into Leah. He's married to her, but he's not really into her.

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He's more in love with Rachel.

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And God views this favoritism, and what does he do?

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He ends up blessing Leah with a fruitful womb, and she ends up bearing four children unto Jacob.

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Now, that's a significant thing because the four children that she bears end up being very significant tribes

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by which the priesthood would come forth, as well as the Messiah.

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You have Reuben, you know, let's just put that to the side real quick.

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Not every example is perfect, okay? Not every illustration is perfect.

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Reuben's not that good of a guy, but you have Levi, and of course from Levi comes forth Moses, Aaron, the priesthood, so forth.

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But then you also have Judah, and of course out of Judah springs forth King David,

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and ultimately the Lord Jesus Christ.

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So, it kind of shows you that the woman who's despised, you know, God ends up looking upon her, favoring her,

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giving her the children by which these prophetic tribes are going to come forth for future fulfillment.

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So, four children already belong to Leah and Jacob, and at this point Rachel has no babies, okay?

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The Lord has essentially closed her womb.

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Look at verse 1 of chapter 30.

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It says, when Rachel saw that she bared Jacob no children, Rachel envied her sister and said unto Jacob,

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give me children or else I die.

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Now, look, obviously Rachel, you know, lady, this is not a good attitude to have,

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and you shouldn't envy your sister for this, but at least we're thankful that she wants to have children.

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You know, in the day and age in which we live, we have people who despise children,

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yet even murder their children, and the society that we live in is so sick and twisted and demented

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that they would defend such a ridiculous woman, some godless woman who's going to split her wide open

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hopefully sooner than later.

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You know, oh, she's mentally insane. Who cares?

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Of course she's mentally insane. She killed her children. She's a reprobate.

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But you know, we have a society today that hates children.

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They abort children. They kill their children. They don't like children.

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Whereas in times past, and of course we have that somewhat to a degree today,

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that, you know, people obviously esteem children in the Bible as we should, right?

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We should esteem children, love children, children are a blessing.

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You know, I think of my children and they stress me out, but they bring me so much joy, though.

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And if you're just like, well, you know, if your children stress you out so much,

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would it be better not to have children? No, I'll take the stress.

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If you showed me all the blessings and all the stress that having children would give me,

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I'd be like, bring it. Bring it, because I love my children.

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They bring a lot of joy in my life. You know, it's just a blessing to see them grow.

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It's a blessing to see them get saved.

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It's a blessing to see them interact with their parents and grow in wisdom and knowledge.

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And just having children is a major blessing.

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And truly, the Bible says, happy is the man to have this quiver full.

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And that's true. You know, a quiver is just basically however much you can handle,

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however many the Lord gives you.

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And so thank God for that. You know, I have six.

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I'm hoping I have more. I'm praying to God we have more.

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I hope, you know, our estimation, my wife and I's estimation, if the Lord wills,

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is that maybe nine, maybe 10, maybe 12, who knows, you know, that would be awesome.

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I would love to have 12 children. You know, I love to have 10 children.

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I love to have nine. I love to have seven.

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Whatever God gives us, but I hope God blesses us with many children.

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And we need to get away from this mentality that, oh man, children are a burden and all these things.

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Well, here's the thing. Of course they're a burden. It's another life.

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But the blessings always outweigh the burden.

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And so never be this couple or just like, well, we're just going to wait until later for us to have children.

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Because quite frankly, God can close the womb.

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And also, you know, you should do nothing to prevent yourself from having children as well.

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I'm talking about birth control, whether it's, you know, synthetic birth control

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or natural birth control as the Catholics do.

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No, you should just let, you know, God give you whatever children he wants you to have.

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And you're like, oh man, but how are we going to afford it?

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You fed yourself for how many years and you eat a lot, you know.

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And you know, God's taking care of you and God can bless.

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And you know, we need to live below our means and so forth.

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But at the end of the day, it doesn't really matter if God's commanding us to do.

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He's going to enable us to handle business.

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Okay. And be able to provide for our own.

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But what we see here is that Rachel is vexed in her soul.

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She's envying her sister because she cannot bear children.

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Now, you know, that's great, Rachel.

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Do you want to have children and you feel so deeply about it?

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But you shouldn't envy others, you know, if God has closed your womb.

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And that's an important attitude to have as well.

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Because, you know, today there are people who can't bear children

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and it would be wrong for you if you're in that situation

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to envy someone else over what God is doing in their life.

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Because at the end of the day, it may be that God does not want to give you children.

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Maybe God has closed that door.

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Okay. Now, obviously we should pray, we should do everything we possibly can

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on a human level to make sure, you know, that we are as, you know, fertile

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or whatever it may be.

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You know, get yourself some mandrakes as we're going to see in a little bit.

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You know, to make sure, you know, to remove any possibility

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of hindrances towards having children.

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But at the end of the day, if you've done everything you possibly can,

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you can have children.

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Maybe that's God's will.

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Okay. Maybe God has closed that door.

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And if that's the case, you know, grief is a normal part of the feeling

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that you may have, but you should not have envy towards others

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for what they have.

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Okay. You say, why is that?

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Well, Rachel has this envy towards your sister

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and it really moves her to do something very sinful, unbiblical

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and that which lacks faith.

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Okay. Not that anybody would do something like this today,

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but it's just kind of showing you an extreme case of this, right?

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Look at verse 2.

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And Jacob's anger was kindled against Rachel and he said,

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Am I in God's stead? Who hath withheld thee from the fruit of the womb?

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So, you know, he's real sensitive about this whole situation.

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Knows how to talk to a woman, you know.

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He's just like, he's like, what's wrong with you?

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You know, am I, am I God?

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You know, he's the one who's withheld you from having children.

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And she said, Behold, my maid, Bilhah, go and enter her

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and she shall bear upon my knees that I may also have children by her.

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That's funny, you know.

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Jacob doesn't protest this as he just got on her

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for not being able to have children, right?

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You know, before he was just like, am I God?

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And then she's like, go and enter Bilhah.

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The next verse, you know, he marries Bilhah.

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He's just like, all right, you know, we'll see what happens, you know.

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This is obviously not God's will, right?

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God doesn't want this.

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He's, you know, Jacob and his wife Rachel are using carnal means,

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godless means in order to have children.

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And at the end of the day, Rachel, these aren't really your children.

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She's buried, you know, she's buried upon your knees,

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but at the end of the day, biologically, these are not your children, okay?

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Now, look, like I said before in chapter 29,

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I do believe if Jacob would have remained married just to Leah,

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those two children could have came from Leah.

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I believe God could have blessed that womb.

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I mean, he's demonstrating that over the fact

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that she literally bore four children back to back, right, initially.

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And I think that God could have done that same thing with Leah later on.

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They didn't have to do all this weird stuff, all this Mormon stuff,

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you know, all this Muslim stuff here, where you're just the polygamist

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and they're just having children by any means necessary

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because, you know, she's incapable of having children.

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It says in verse 4, she gave him, Bilhah, her husband, her handmade, excuse me,

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to wife and Jacob went in unto her and Bilhah conceived and buried Jacob a son.

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And Rachel said, God hath judged me and hath also heard my voice

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and hath given me a son, therefore called she his name Dan.

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No, Rachel, that's not your son.

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You know, obviously you can say it's your son by proxy

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because you're making some sort of agreement with Bilhah in this regard.

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That's Bilhah's son, okay?

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And, you know, I don't like what Rachel's saying here in verse 6.

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God hath judged me and hath also heard my voice,

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as if this is like an answer to prayer.

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Like, oh, God's answered my prayer.

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No, he hasn't because if he would have actually asked God about this,

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he would have said no.

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But she's forcing the will of God upon Jacob, upon Bilhah.

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You know, she thinks like everyone else in this situation

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that they can just manipulate the situation to carry out the will of God.

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It's not right to do, okay?

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And obviously, you know, in the nation in which we live,

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we don't really, we're not a nation that struggles with polygamy.

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Obviously, there's pockets of people who do this stuff,

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but in general, it's frowned upon, okay?

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But, you know, you can apply this to other ungodly, unnatural means of having children, okay?

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And so, at the end of the day, we need to make sure that we pray into the Lord.

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You have not because you ask not,

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you have not because you ask a miss that you may consume it upon your lust.

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Sometimes there's just instances where God just doesn't answer the prayer.

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But, here's the thing, folks, is that if God chooses for you not to have children,

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the alternative is not, well, let's just use some sort of carnal, godless,

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you know, the superficial means to be able to have children.

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Let's, and look, let me just say this.

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I don't even believe it's right to adopt, okay?

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And obviously, that's my personal preference.

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There's nothing in the Bible that explicitly says that.

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Dao Shan not adopt children.

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We could obviously use the spiritual application of God adopting us.

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But here's the thing, folks, is that at the end of the day, you know,

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when you adopt children, you're essentially saying, you know,

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I'm going to make this happen even if God doesn't want to give me children.

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So then you adopt children.

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And, you know, I'm not 100% familiar with the laws here,

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but it seems as though if that child grows up and decides to just leave you

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and go back to their biological parents, they can do that.

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And it causes a lot of strain, a lot of emotional damage, a lot of friction.

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It just causes a lot of problems.

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And so it's problems that you can, you know, avoid if you just, you know what,

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whatever God gives us, whether you choose to give us children or not,

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that's what we're going to go with.

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So Dan is the son of Bilhah.

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Look at verse 7,

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and Bilhah's Rachel's maid conceived again and bared Jacob as second son.

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And Rachel said,

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with great wrestlings have I wrestled with my sister and I have prevailed.

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And she called his name Neftali.

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So what do you mean?

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You know, no, you didn't prevail against your sister, Bilhah did.

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You know, you're not the one bearing children here.

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You're not a proxy mother.

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And, you know, just, well, these are technically my children.

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No, they're Bilhah's children.

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You are using carnal means to fulfill this task.

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Look at verse 9,

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when Leah saw that she had left bearing, she took Zilpa her maid

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and gave her Jacob to wife.

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So, you know, Leah, so what we see here is kind of like a race.

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And it's just like, you guys are not, like, you guys,

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what's wrong with you guys?

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First of all, Leah, you can have babies.

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You know, it's just like, yeah, but we can have them even faster

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if we get Zilpa involved here

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and have her marry Jacob

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and then we can just, you know, pop him out

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and that could win this race.

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Okay, very carnal, very carnal, faithless.

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And here's the thing, Leah is, her room is not necessarily closed.

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She's just born four children unto Jacob

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and so there should be no reason to involve Zilpa.

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This is just showing you and showing me how faithless

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these people are.

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They've become very faithless in their dealings.

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It's a carnal thing.

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We're trying to race to have as many children as possible

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because we want to beat so and so.

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And look, folks, I'm all for having children.

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You know, it's great to list wherever it's at.

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You know, that thing is growing.

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I think it's like the most we've ever had.

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Okay?

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But we shouldn't be in a race though.

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Okay?

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And you know, it shouldn't be like,

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well, we're trying to have more children and so and so.

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We're trying to beat so and so or something.

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You know, it should be a matter of just whatever the Lord gives us

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and just rejoice when people are pregnant.

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You know, rejoice with that.

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And I get it, sometimes it is difficult.

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I get it because there are instances where maybe,

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you know, you might have had a miscarriage.

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There might have been a situation like that where you lost the baby

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and it's hard to see other people bearing children

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when you've suffered a loss.

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And that's 100% justified to feel that manner

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when that takes place.

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But we should still rejoice when others have children

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and recognize that God is still blessing

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and not view it as some sort of competition.

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So, Zilpa gets in the mix here.

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Verse 10 says,

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So he's obviously not opposed to adding Zilpa.

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Okay?

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Verse 11 says,

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And Zilpa has made Bear Jacob a second son

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and Leah said,

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For the daughters will call me blessed

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and she called his name Asher.

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So in total, if you think about this, you know,

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Leah had more children than any of them.

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More than Bilhah, more than Zilpa, more than Rachel,

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she bore, if you include Dinah, seven children.

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So I do believe that if she would have just stuck

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to the biblical model,

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she would have just kept having children

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and being able to fulfill the prophecy

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and she should have just been fully persuaded

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that what God had promised, he was able also to perform.

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So she has seven children including Dinah.

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And then the handmaids end up having two each

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and then Rachel is, end up blessed with two children

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but fairly significant because she ends up having Joseph

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and then later on she has Benjamin.

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So Asher, look at verse 14 in Reuben

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went in the days of wheat harvest

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and found mandrakes in the field

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and brought them unto his mother Leah.

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Then Rachel said to Leah,

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Give me I pray thee of thy son's mandrakes.

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Now, it's not 100% clear what this is

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but we can surmise that a mandrake

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is basically something that can induce fertility.

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It's some sort of root or a plant

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that some people have said is like an aphrodisiac,

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others said it's like something that induces fertility.

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Obviously it has something to do with that

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because Rachel's like, give me some of that

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because I want to have more children.

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And historically that's what a mandrake would do.

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So, you know, Reuben finds some,

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he brings them from the field,

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Rachel comes and says to Leah,

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Give me your son's mandrakes.

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Verse 15, and she said unto her,

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Is it a small matter that thou has taken my husband?

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And wouldest thou take away my son's mandrakes also?

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And Rachel said,

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Therefore he shall lie with thee tonight

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for thy son's mandrakes.

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So this is interesting.

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This kind of gives us a picture here

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of how this great polygamist relationship works

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because it's such a great model

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of how things should be done, right?

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What's taking place here?

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Well, Reuben brings the mandrakes.

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Rachel sees this and tells Leah,

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Hey, give me those mandrakes.

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And she's like, no, you took my husband.

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And then Rachel's like,

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Well, how about we strike a deal here?

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You give me the mandrakes

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and then Jacob can sleep at your tent tonight.

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And the idea here is,

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where's Jacob staying the majority of the nights with Rachel?

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That's why she said,

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You took my husband and then they're making this deal.

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Why would they have to make that deal

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if he's staying with Leah as well, you know?

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It's possible that he's spending most of his time with Rachel.

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And what does that demonstrate

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that he basically esteems Rachel over Leah?

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Yeah, what a great model of polygamy here.

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Just, oh man, this is so great.

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These guys know exactly what they're talking about.

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It just makes for a great love story.

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How romantic, right?

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Where one is beloved, you know,

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and the other one is hated

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and the hated one has to strike a deal

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just to spend the night with their own husband.

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It doesn't really work now, does it?

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So he says here, verse 16,

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and Jacob came out of the field in the evening

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and Leah went out to meet him and said,

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thou must come unto me

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for surely I have hired thee

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with my son's mandrakes

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and he lay with her that night.

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That's sad.

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That's really sad.

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I mean, why would she need to hire

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her husband, you know,

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for some mandrakes if that's her husband?

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He should, how do you render

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doubenevolence in that case, right?

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How do you render doubenevolence

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in a polygamous relationship

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where the husband despises one of the wives?

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That's clearly what's taking place here.

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But yet you have these heretical pastors out there,

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these Book of Enoch heretical pastors

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that are promoting polygamy,

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saying that it's justified.

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Oh, Jacob did it.

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Yeah, look how romantic and how lovely

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and what a wonderful love story

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that ended up being there

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where Leah literally has to pay mandrakes

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in order to spend the night with her husband.

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It's godless.

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Look, folks, the Bible says to render doubenevolence

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unto your spouse.

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And let me tell you what that means.

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It means that when your spouse wants a physical relationship,

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you're not to withhold that from them.

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You're not to weaponize it.

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You're not to say,

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I got a headache.

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Hey, I'd be profan, amen.

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I got a headache. I'm tired.

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I'd be profan in a red bowl.

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Because it's your responsibility

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to render doubenevolence unto your spouse.

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Okay.

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And I'm talking to both,

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but let's just be honest.

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Most of the time in our culture,

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it's the woman who's withholding that

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from the man.

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That's a godless thing to do.

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Oh, yeah, but he just doesn't...

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He's just not as romantic.

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I missed that part in the passage.

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It says he has to be romantic

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in order

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for you to render doubenevolence

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of your physical body to him.

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I would just say, if that's what he wants,

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you got to give it to him. And vice versa.

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And let me just remind all you

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Christian feminists out there

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that a woman's body belongs to the man.

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And vice versa.

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We won't spend too much time on that.

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No, I'm just kidding.

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It belongs to the man.

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Your body, it's not your body,

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your choice, it's your body,

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but technically it's your husband's body.

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And it's his choice.

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So this whole Feminazi

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ideology out there

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where they try to weaponize

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the physical relationship

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and try to withhold that from their husband

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as a means of punishment

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or because you're mad

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or because you have a headache

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or because this, that, and the other,

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it's unjustified and it's not found in the Bible.

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You're a godless person if that's what you do.

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Clip that.

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Clip that and throw it on the archives.

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You know what,

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Rachel, Leia,

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and Jacob are doing is wrong.

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And you know what, Jacob,

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Jacob should have been like,

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what do you mean you paid mandrakes?

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I'm your husband.

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Go get those things back.

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He should have gone to Rachel and be like,

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hey, where are those mandrakes at?

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Rubin got them, those belong to him

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and guess what, I belong to Leia

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just as much as I belong to you.

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That's a weird thing, but

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it's the truth.

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And I don't know, it seems like

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Jacob's just kind of a pushover when it comes to this stuff.

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It sounds like he's just enjoying the ride over here,

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having these four wives,

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but it's causing a lot of controversy here.

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And no, a polygamous relationship

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apparently doesn't work on a practical level.

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Wives hiring

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just to spend the night with their husband.

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Okay?

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And so,

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you know,

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you're like, well, you know, I'm just tired.

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Get some mandrakes.

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Find some mandrakes.

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You know,

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Red Bull,

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C4,

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you know, whatever you got to do

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to make it happen,

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because it's better to supplement

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that, okay,

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to be physical with your spouse

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than to ruin your marriage because you're not coming together.

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And then Satan

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tempts you for your incontinence.

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That's what the Bible says.

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Oh, I just think it's just inappropriate that you're saying it.

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I think it's inappropriate that you're not coming together.

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How about that?

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Why don't you change your view of things

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and stop viewing it in such a secular feminist manner

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and recognize

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it's Godless for you not to come together.

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In fact, that's what Satan wants.

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He wants you to abstain one from another

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because God's will is for you to come together.

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Okay?

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As much as you guys want to be.

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Okay?

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And so that's important.

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And obviously we know the biblical teaching there

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is that the only time you would abstain

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from that relationship is that when you're giving yourself

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to prayer and fasting

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and, you know,

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but obviously that's not,

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prayer and fasting is not a prolonged time.

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In my opinion, you can still do that

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and pray. Amen?

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And so, anyways,

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verse 17,

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and God hearkened unto Leah

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and she conceived and bared Jacob

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the fifth son. So we see here,

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Leah comes out losing

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to a certain degree because

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she's given up her mandrakes because she wants to be fertile

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but, you know, she's willing

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to forego the possibility of having

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children just so she could spend the night with her husband.

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So really

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from a practical perspective

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the one who should be bearing

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based upon the story is Rachel

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because she's the one who has the fertility

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potion.

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But we see

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that God hearkens unto Leah

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and she conceives and bares

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Jacob the fifth son

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despite the fact that she did not have

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the mandrakes.

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Now this is also showing us that what

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God esteems more than anything else

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is just

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the physical relationship between

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a husband and a wife. He just wants them

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to come together to do that

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which married couples do and leave everything

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else in God's hands.

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Because Leah is basically saying like

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oh man, I'm going to miss out on having

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children but I'd rather just

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be with my husband.

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I'd rather just, you know, be with my husband

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and have that physical relationship

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and what does God end up doing? He ends up blessing her

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with children.

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And so, you know,

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this is important because, you know, sometimes

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couples could have this

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frustration

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because they can't have children

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and it's just like now it's becoming like a chore

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it's just like oh, we got to make sure we do this

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at a certain, when the moon

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is a certain, you know, color

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and we got to make sure we manipulate

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everything so that we can have children

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but then you start stressing out

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you start worrying and that's what

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causes the infertility, the tension.

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Whereas what God just wants you to do

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is just come together and just leave

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the outcome to God.

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So I admire Leah.

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You know, Leah is a wonderful

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woman. She's obviously, you know,

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she has her flaws

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but at the end of the day she was

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willing to forego that which is practical

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in order to just have her husband and God

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ends up blessing her with the fifth son, verse 18.

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And Leah said, God has given me my

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hire because I have given

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my maiden to my husband

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and she called his name Isacar

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and Leah conceived again

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and bear Jacob the sixth son

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and Leah said, God has

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endured me with a good dowry

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now will my husband dwell with

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me because I have born him six sons

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and she called his name

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Zebulun. I like what it says in verse 21

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and afterwards she bears daughter and called her name Dina.

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She's kind of like throwing it in there.

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She bears six sons and they had Dina

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as well. You say, man, why is it so

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like, you know, well because of the

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fact that God's trying to get,

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he's trying to accomplish something here

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through the men because he's trying to create

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these 12 tribes. Obviously

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Dina's not the spies but in the grand

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scheme of things she doesn't necessarily play

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a vital role

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in the formation of this nation.

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Okay. So in

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total she has born

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seven children unto

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Jacob and she's

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under, you know, this notion

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that, you know, oh, Jacob's going to love me now.

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He's going to dwell with me now because I've given him

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so many children, more children than

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the others, but of course that's not

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necessarily the case. Verse 22

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and God remembered Rachel

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and God harkened to her

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and opened her womb. Now that's interesting

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because she took

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the mandrakes

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and wasn't able to bear children and

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we see here that she bears children

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only because God harkened unto her

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and opened her womb.

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So at the end of the day we need to realize

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that we should do everything physically possible

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on a practical level to have children

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but, you know, it's God who opens

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the door, it's God who closes it, it's God who opens

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the womb, it's God who closes it and so forth.

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So the Lord loves Rachel

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and he is blessing her as well.

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Look at verse 23 and she conceived and

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bears a son and said, God have taken

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away my reproach

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and she called his name Joseph

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and said the Lord shall add to me

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another son. Now the only son

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that's not mentioned here

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because this doesn't happen until later is Benjamin.

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Okay, Benjamin is the last

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of the 12s because technically

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they had 13 children that would

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include Dinah but 12 sons

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and Benjamin the 12th

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is, you know, she has him

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and she dies at childbirth unfortunately

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which is a sad story there as well.

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It says in verse 25 and it came to pass

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when Rachel had born Joseph

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that Jacob said unto Laban

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send me away that I may go unto

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my own place into my country

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give me my wives and my children

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for whom I have served thee

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and let me go for thou knowest my service

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which I have done thee

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and Laban said unto him I pray thee

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if I have found favor in thine eyes

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tarry for I have learned

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by experience that the Lord has blessed

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me for thy sake.

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So, you know, Laban is just like

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those 14 years is not enough.

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Now why does Laban want

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Jacob to hang around?

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Because God is with Jacob

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right and it's

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because of Jacob that he's

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experiencing the residual blessings

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and you know what this shows us?

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It shows us that when God's hand is upon us

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those around us get blessed as well

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even if they don't deserve it.

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People around us

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maybe are family members

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maybe friends, maybe the company that we

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work for to a degree

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they get blessed. Why?

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Because the fallout of the blessings

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affect them as well.

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We should desire that God

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blesses us not just for our sake

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but so that others

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can also experience the residual

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blessings that we are getting as well

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and recognize like man I'm being blessed

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in my life because of this guy.

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Our company is better because of

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this guy. You know, our family has

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improved because of so and so

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God's hand is upon this person

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therefore we are experiencing the blessings

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as well. Now obviously

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your family, your company may not

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say it in those exact words

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but they'll think it though like you know what

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we've succeeded because I like having

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this is my lucky charm over here

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this is the guy that I need

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in order to bless my business this is the person

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what are they saying? You know, God's with this

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individual and that's why I'm being blessed

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and you know what that should be our desire.

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We want to be blessed because

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we want to be blessed.

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We want God to bless our children

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our family, our finances, our

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possessions but at the end of the day just

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recognize that part of that

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is so that others

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may see your good works, others can

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see the blessings and possibly

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glorify God

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or even request

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or ask about salvation

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ask about the things I've got to you

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and you know what that's why it's important that we keep a good

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testimony before our family, friends

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and coworkers as well.

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Don't be a jerk at your job

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don't be a jerk with your family

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don't be a bad testimony

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a bad ambassador

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why because you know we want

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the unsaved

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we want those out in the world

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to view that God is with us and we want them

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to want what we have

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but if you're just

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as hyper spiritual

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holier than now

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just you know self-righteous

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person, you're a hypocrite

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where you are

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living one way at church

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but then you're just a completely godless

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worldly person at work

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or with your family you know that doesn't work

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being a bad testimony

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okay

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being honest employee but you know what

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just be a good son, a good daughter

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a good father

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a good wife

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at home as well

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the bible tells us

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ye are our epistles written in our hearts

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known and read up all men

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you know you've heard that saying

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we may be the only bible that people read

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sounds corny and it is

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but it is true I just think it's corny

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because I've heard it from so many corny preachers

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but you know there is some

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semblance of truth to that

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because what they're saying is that

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your boss is not going to open up the board of god

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so the only scripture that he's going to see

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in real time is you

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you're that open epistle

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known and read of all men

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you know but what can I

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but are you like an epistle of Barnumus though

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an epistle of Judas

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or something

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or are you a good representation

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of Christianity

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and you know what let me just say this

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obviously we have liberty as Christians

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and I get we're dealing with a lot of

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first generation Christians

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but don't use your liberty as an occasion to the flesh

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make sure that as a Christian

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you go the second mile

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of being a testimony

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don't be this just worldly

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god this person before others

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because you're being a bad representation

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of Christianity

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you know obviously you need to be a person

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who obeys the word of god but even to a certain degree

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you should have higher standards than the unsafe

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why because the bible says that the righteous

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are more excellent than his neighbor

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and so you know I live

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around

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Christians

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and you know non-Christians

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and unsafe people

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and I do my best to make sure

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that not just me and my family

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that we are a good testimony to those around us

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you know there are certain things we can't control

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because our

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our household is too big

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we got a lot of loud kids and stuff

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and they probably hear us spanking our kids

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you know down the street or whatever

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but you know the best that we can

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we try to be a good testimony

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to our neighbors

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not be trashy, not be dirty

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you know

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I don't bump hip hop but we're not bumping hip hop

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or rock and roll or something

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you know be a good testimony

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be a person who when people look at you

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you don't necessarily have to tell them you're a Christian

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they just kind of caught that already

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you know

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you're like what's another way that I could be a good testimony

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well how about you don't dress like a whore

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that's good, that's the starters

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why don't you just

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I'm talking about both men and women

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and the day and age in which we live

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you gotta dress both

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don't look like an absolute whore

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don't look like a slut

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clip that

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don't look like an absolute

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godless person

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you know oh man

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they just don't know I'm a Christian here

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it's probably because you're just wearing pants all the time

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probably

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because you've got the booty shorts at the gym

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well how can I perform this

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workout if I don't wear my booty shorts

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don't do it

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or just wear a skirt or something like that

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I'm sure there's skirts out there

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there's women that work out with skirts and stuff

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and they look modest when they work out

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you know do that

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oh but I want to show off my booty

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you're godless

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then you're basically a whore

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right

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you know be a good testimony

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you know it should be

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that you dress a certain way

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and I'm not saying you have to dress in a shirt and tie to go to the gym either

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okay

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and obviously there's certain instances where we can't

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really portray Christianity

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by the way we look

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it's just we wear clothes and that's it

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and really it does more apply

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to women than men

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oh man I can't believe

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no it's true it's true it's a fact

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now obviously with dudes

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you shouldn't be

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at the gym shirtless or something like that

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or with a spaghetti

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spaghetti string top

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whatever you call that

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ain't nobody trying to see all that

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you know or how about this

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you know if you are a person

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who's just tatted from head to toe

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have some shame and cover it up

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right

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you know especially if you got like

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profanity and godlessness

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artwork on you

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cover it up

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I'm just saying you know we need to make sure

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that we let our lights so shine before men that they may

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see our good works to the best of our ability

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okay

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and you know again guys

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if you go to the gym

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first of all you better not be wearing old booty shorts

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a little faggot

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oh but it's in now

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the 80's

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booty shorts are in for dudes

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that's gay dude

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that's super gay

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okay

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yeah but I've been working on my glutes and everything

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and you know

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you know

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and look I'm for working out the glutes

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I am

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I think everyone should work out the glutes

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and you say why

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you'll thank me once you're

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60 and 50, 60, 70 years old

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because you use the glutes to

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get off the toilet and off the bed

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that's the biggest muscle on the body

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it's necessary

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you need strength in the gluteus maximus

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amen

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you gotta build it up so you can you know

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get off the ground

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if you fall

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and then I'm

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you think it's funny but it's true

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people in their old age

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they fear the toilet

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because you know they can't get up

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they don't have the strength to get up

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it's a real thing

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and so it is funny for sure

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you know

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let's act like high schoolers here

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and just laugh about it

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but it's a legitimate thing

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you know you should work on your legs

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and work on your glutes

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not for looks

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not so you can put on some

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80's booty shorts

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bicycle booty shorts or whatever

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but so you can

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actually use it for practical reasons

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okay

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so the point that I'm making is

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be modest amen

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be a modest individual

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you know make sure

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let no crew of communication proceed out of your mouth

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but that which is good to the use of edifying

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that it may minister grace into the ear

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you know obviously

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we're not perfect but when you're talking to the unsaved

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you should seek to have your

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speech season with salt

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and with grace

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right

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and make sure that you're speaking in such a way

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that they're like I think this person is a Christian

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you know

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and look I can't say

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that using cuss words

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is a sin but it's definitely not necessary

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profitable all the time though

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okay

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it's profitable when you're throwing out a tranny

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it's profitable when you're defending

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the innocent right

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but you know when you're just chopping it up with someone

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and you're just throwing f-bombs left and right

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it's not necessarily the most profitable thing

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especially if it's towards the unsaved

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because they're like oh I thought this guy was a crit

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okay cool you know

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I guess I guess that's just how they talk

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okay

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and do us a favor how about you don't upload that

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story where you're throwing f-bombs

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all over the place too

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because it's good to be a good testimony to

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unsaved people but it's also going to be a good

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testimony to other churches

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and again you know

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I'm not perfect so one day a clip might

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be uploaded with me throwing an f-bomb to like a

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tranny or something for giving me ahead of time

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okay

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but you know that's

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you know obviously we shouldn't be

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characterized by that

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f this

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well how about you just

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you know speak some scripture instead

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let's get some stories this

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week of you just quoting

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a verse from the bible

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or posting a verse or something

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let's just yeah

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let's do that

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I now call for

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everyone in our church who post stories on a

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consistent basis

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to record yourself quoting a verse

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or posting a verse

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and then tag me

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that's your incentive tag me

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and I'll repost it on my stories

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okay make sure it's king James too

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be a good testimony online

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and I'm not saying you have to be perfect

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either because look you

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know me

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I'm not perfect

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okay I get mad

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I get upset you know I've said

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some unsavory words from

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time to time but you know what I'm not

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characterized by that though

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and you know what I don't think you're

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characterized by either I'm just trying to help

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you not to be characterized by it

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don't use your liberty as an occasion to

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the flesh

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be a person

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the bible says if any man speak

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let them speak as the oracles of God

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which is the bible

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and again you want to be real

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don't be a fake and a phony

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around the unsaved either though

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don't be these non-denom type Christians

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where you're just so

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holy you're hyper-spiritual

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you know they're

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turned off by that just be real

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and I'm not saying you know a

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slip of the F word won't come out

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every once in a while from your tongue when you're talking

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to people I'm just saying like just kind

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of clean it up every once in a while

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like you know you don't always have to like

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you know just don't insert it every other

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word

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like go get a thesaurus

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learn some new vocabulary

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words

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you know what I mean

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and so forth and so you know

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I don't even know how we got off on that but

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we're talking about being a good testimony

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why does that work here

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I know Rachel was born Joseph

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alright we got that

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I'm favoring their eyes

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I'm front lunge expert as well

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oh yeah there you go it's because you know

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so Jacob was a good testimony

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to Laban which is why he wanted to keep him

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around

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okay

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and so that's how we got off on that

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but it's a good tangent I think it's important to know

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I'll be waiting for your stories

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I'm gonna be looking out for that

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you can start tonight if you want

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if you know a verse

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if you've memorized the verse

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let's move on here

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verse 28

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and he said appoint me thy wages and I will give it

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now

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you know

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fool me once shame on me

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fool me twice

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oh wait fool me once shame on you

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fool me twice shame on me

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so Jacob you know it's just like

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or Laban I should say

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you don't really have a whole lot of credibility bro

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wouldn't you appoint me that way

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we did this already twice

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and so you know Laban and obviously

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God is using Laban

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to chest eyes

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Jacob to a certain degree

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we can see God's providential hand in this

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or he's kind of teaching him

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he's getting a taste of his own medicine

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so he says you know put me your wages and I'll give it

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he said unto him thou knowest

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how I have served thee

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and how thy cattle was with me

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for it was little which thou had

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before I came

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and it is now increased unto a multitude

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and the Lord has blessed thee since my coming

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and now when shall I provide for my own house

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also so what is Jacob saying

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what more do you want from me

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since I've been here

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you've been blessed you've increased

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you have all kinds of cattle

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and livestock and God has been

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with you you know I married both of your daughters

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like what more do you want

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he doesn't want to let him go

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he's like I want to kind of go out

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and start my own family

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and go to my nation

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and just take care of business

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to fraud me enough is what he's saying right

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he says in verse 31

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and he said what shall I give thee

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and Jacob said thou shall not give me anything

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if thou would do this thing for me

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I will again feed and keep thy flock

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I will pass through all thy flock

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today

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removing from fence all the speckled

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and spotted cattle

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and all the brown cattle among the sheep

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and the spotted and speckled among the goats

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and of such shall be my hire

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so shall my righteousness

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answer for me in time to come

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when it shall come for my hire

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before thy face everyone that is not

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speckled and spotted among the goats

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and brown among the sheep

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thou shall be counted stolen with me

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so let me explain what's going on here

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to the best of my ability

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this is what I believe is taking place here

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so you know Laban is like alright

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what do you want me to pay you

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so that you can stay

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and I can be blessed more

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he goes how about we do this

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okay he says you know let me

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serve

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and let me

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remove the cattle

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that what I believe he is saying here

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by range straight and spotted

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and so forth is like the inferior

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livestock

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so look I'll take the inferior

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livestock and whatever is not

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blemished you can keep

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and he says there in verse 33

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social my righteousness answer for me

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in the time to come he's like I'll be

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defrauded you know I'll be the one to take

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the inferior livestock

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and you know what my righteousness

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will answer God's going to bless me for this

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you know and at face value

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he's like alright you know Jacob's learning here

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but he's not necessarily learning because he's being cunning again

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because what he's going to do

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he's going to manipulate the situation in such a way

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that he

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essentially makes some of the cattle

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look

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spotted speckled

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and ring straight

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so when they actually give birth

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he takes the strong cattle

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and then he manipulates the way they look

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so that they can stay with him

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and those who are weak he gives the laban

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okay

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so it's just like Jacob

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you're like a dog

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who's returning back to his vomit

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you're not learning from your mistakes

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you're being conniving

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you're being deceptive

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and you know what we can carry from this

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one principle that we can carry from this about Jacob

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is that he just struggles with lying

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which is why he's rightly called Jacob

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he's deceptive

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and you know what

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we need to make sure that as Christians

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we tell the truth

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that we're honest in our dealings

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and you know what

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you might have grown up in a home where lying was just a norm

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and where

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lying and being deceptive and being dishonest

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was just something that you did

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even if it was for a good

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outcome or whatever it may be

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you need to repent of that

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lying

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bearing false witness

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being dishonest

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is a godless characteristic

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you know

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lying lips are an abomination

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unto the Lord my friends

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okay

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and you know what we discipline our children for lying

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even for little lies

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because we don't want them to develop

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the character of just being

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a liar

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just make it easy for them to lie about anything

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whether it's stealing

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whether it's

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oh they lied about

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their brother or sister just to save their hide

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they get disciplined for that

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because it's wrong to lie

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and if you disagree with me then it looks like

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you need to up your standards a little bit

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about that

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maybe you need to make sure

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you up your standards in regards to lying yourself

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and not be a liar

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not be a dishonest person

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and you know sometimes

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people have the tendency

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to lie

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not necessarily because they have some sort of

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ulterior motive it just comes natural to them

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and this is notorious when it comes to Hispanics

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let me just say it right now

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these Mexicans

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okay

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you know sometimes lying is just like a normal thing

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and I think even before I got saved

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I had some of that in me

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like I was just kind of like a

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I would just tell like white lies all the time

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I can't think of a specific example

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but I do believe that that was the case

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because that's the kind of environment that I grew up in

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and I had to learn

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to just be honest even if it meant my

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hurt

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even if it meant that I came out losing

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in the long run don't be a liar

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and obviously I'm joking when I say Hispanics

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because at the end of the day lying

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is not a cultural trait

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it's just a sinful trait

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because I've met white people who lie too

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okay

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I met white people that lie

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and they double down

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and they're not willing to tell the truth

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I'm looking at all you white people

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not you

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you're not really white to me

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but your son is

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you know look at all the white people here

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you know it yeah

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Mexicans black people are liars

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dramatic pause

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why people lie

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Asians lie

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it's just a sinful trait

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oh yeah

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that's right

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we'll raise you on me

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Indians lie

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because at the end of the day

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and obviously there may be some cultures

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that have the propensity to lie more than others

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and that is true

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but I'll be honest with you

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I've seen

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like major liars

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in all types of cultures

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all different races

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and in general I get it

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there's some that lie more than others for sure

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but at the end of the day we're talking about

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a sinful trait

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because lying is just a sinful trait

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okay

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you know

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Jews lie

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I mean good night

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who is a liar

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but he denied that Jesus is the Christ

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right

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but he even just

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Jacob he's of Israel

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he's not a Jew

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Jacob's not a Jew

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are we clear on that

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you know he's not a Jew

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he's a Hebrew but he's

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why is he lying because he just

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has this habit of lying

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that's how he has gone to where he's at

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that's how he gets the things that he wants

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and you know what God has to deal with him

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God has to refine him

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God has to discipline him

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God has to allow him to go through

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hard difficult times

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to come to the realization like I need to be an honest person

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so

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let's keep reading here verse 34 says

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and Laban said behold I would

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it might be according to thy word

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so he's just like we'll do that and then

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Laban's like I hope that's what's gonna happen

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but here's the thing

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Laban's a liar too

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he's deceptive too

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so he's gonna get

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what's coming to him just as Jacob is

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but here's the difference

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God's with Jacob

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he's not necessary with Laban

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verse 35 says he removed that day

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the he goats that were shrink straight and spotted

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and all the she goats that were speckled and spotted

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and everyone that had some white in it

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and all the brown among the sheep

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and gave them into the hand of his sons

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skip down to

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verse number

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let's look at verse 39

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says the flocks conceived before the rods

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and brought forth cattle

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ring straight speckled and spotted

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and Jacob did separate the lambs

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and set the faces of the flocks towards the ring straight

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and all the brown in the flock of Laban

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and he put his own flocks by themselves

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and put them not unto Laban's cattle

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go down to verse 42

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he says but when the cattle were

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feeble or I'm sorry verse 41

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and he came to pass once over the stronger

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cattle did conceive

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that Jacob laid the rods before

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the eyes of the cattle and the gutters

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that they might conceive among the rods

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but when the cattle were feeble

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he put them not in

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so the feebler were Laban's

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and the stronger

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Jacob's

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now again I do believe

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because God is with Jacob

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he didn't have to do all this stuff

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I believe that if

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Jacob legitimately took the ring straight

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spotted and speckled

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livestock

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God would have just miraculously

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done something there

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and given him really good livestock

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thereafter

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he would have figured it out of way

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but here's the thing folks

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it's right to be honest

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even if that doesn't happen

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it's always right to do right

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even if you don't come out

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winning on the other side

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it's always right to do right

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but here's the thing in general though

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God does end up blessing you for it

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because he wants us to

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he wants our faith to be increased

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in that when we are

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honest and when we do good

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that God blesses us for it

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I'm just saying there's going to be instances

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where you do right and you don't come out winning

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on the other side

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you know you end up

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getting some

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inferior livestock

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you end up

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getting some disease

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then blemished and

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just inferior cattle

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or whatever

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but I do believe that God could have blessed him

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he didn't need to manipulate the situation

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the guy is smart though

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which is why he manipulated in such a way

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but he didn't need to do that

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now we see verse 43 that says

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the man increased exceedingly

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had much cattle and maidservants and men servants

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and camels and asses

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so what does this mean? does this mean God approves of Jacob's deception?

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no it just means that he blesses him

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despite it

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in spite of his deception

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so the idea here is that

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don't take

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God blessing you

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because of the wrongs that you do

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as God approving the wrong that you do

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just recognize that sometimes

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just God is gracious to you

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or should we say he's merciful to you

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and you know

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Jacob will pay a heavy price later on

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you know he will be physically

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altered so to speak later on

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because God is trying to get a hold of him

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the point being here is that we need to recognize

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that

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honesty is the best policy

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you don't need to manipulate situations

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so that

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you can come out the winner

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you don't need to lie

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and be deceptive

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and don't tell so and so

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we're gonna do this way

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and you know no one's gonna find

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just be an honest person

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and look folks

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honesty is the best route because

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when you lie you gotta keep track of all that

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you gotta like

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okay where am I

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oh yeah that's right I did tell that lie

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I gotta make sure I don't forget that I told that lie

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and here's the thing if you're not good at keeping track

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you're just gonna look like an absolute idiot

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and you're gonna look like a liar

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people are gonna be like he just lied

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and he doesn't remember that he lied

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and that happens

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so why don't you just be honest

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just be an honest person

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don't manipulate situations

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don't try to be cunning

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just leave it in God's hands

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leave it in God's hands

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and don't be a sneaky person either

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it's the same thing

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just be an open person

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an open book

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an honest individual

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you don't have to be sneaky

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you don't have to be cunning

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you don't have to try to be dishonest

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in order to manipulate a situation

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to come out in your favor

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just leave it in God's hands

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and if you run into a situation

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where you're forced

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to take the ring straight spotted and speckled

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just get it be like you know what

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they're ugly just like me

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I'll take the chopped ones

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to reflection

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of how chopped I am

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but God will bless these chopped

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livestock like he's blessed me

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God will bless you

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God will bless you for it

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but obviously we see here

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that he blessed Jacob

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even though he didn't go about it the right way

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but this should not be a justification

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for us to go about it the wrong way either

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because the reality is this

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you know God could have just turned this around

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and punished Jacob for this

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and so the point being here

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is that we still see

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Jacob being refined

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right he's not yet

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Israel

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he's still that deceptive

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cunning

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heel catcher

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even after 14 years

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of being defrauded

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hasn't necessarily learned his lesson

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but he will

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and you know what if it's been 14 years with you

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and you haven't learned your lesson

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you will

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Father we thank you so much for your word

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thank you for chapter 30 help us

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to avoid the wrong characteristics of Jacob

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help us to be honest people

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just leave it in your hands

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and I'm just looking at a family of just

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people who just don't

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they just lack faith

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Leah lacked faith

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Rachel lacked faith

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the handmaids are lacking faith

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to a certain degree

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Jacob of course lacks faith

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and they're just being carnal

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manipulating situations

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trying to

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create the outcome themselves

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instead of just leaving it in God's hands

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help us to learn from this Lord

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and recognize that

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Lord you bless Jacob and you bless us as well

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we're not perfect we all have

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characteristics and attributes that

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are not necessarily becoming

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to Christianity at times

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Lord and I pray that you'd help us Lord

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help us to be refined help us to be honest

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and may we leave it in your

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hands and recognize that all things do work together

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for good to them to love God Lord

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we love you we thank you pray this things in Jesus name amen